A message from Sandy. We all have our “stuff” to deal with, to master some “stuff” doesn’t mean we have to master it all. It also means that we can still move ahead in the learning and healing process with the “stuff” we still have. I’m guessing unless you are Mother Theresa, Ghandi, or Jesus, we’re going to die with some of our “stuff.” We need to understand and accept that, and be ok with leaving some stuff hanging. We know it’s there, we know it needs work, and we know it may not all be resolved in this lifetime. Do some, leave some, grow some.

Do a little more, grow a little more.  If we just do what we can do, it will be more than enough to propel us forward. We keep working on ourselves because we believe we must do it all, right now! Do we do the same things with our relationships? Do we convince ourselves that something is wrong and it must be fixed immediately? It has to be perfect. Things will fall in and out of alignment as the world turns. Maybe we should  relax. Learn how to choose to leave some things hanging, knowing you can come back to them later.

Choose how you are going to respond to “stuff.” Your “stuff” and other people’s “stuff.” Get clear about what is really going on, and choose what you are going to do in response. Most of the “stuff” in our lives in quite normal, our lives have been unfolding, we have been growing. It is usually our response to “stuff” that creates the problems. I suppose that you could lose your way and get stuck if you have unfinished or undetected “stuff” in your way. You may need some heavy duty cleansers to eliminate the build up.  Choice is one cleanser, clarity is another. What do you do to deal with your “stuff?”